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| November 26, 2004 The Kyle Coulter Story: Part 2 -- Rudy With Skills |
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| Gary Stepic Loboland.com Staff |
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| Part II: Rudy With Skills There are many people in life that totally underestimate the power and impact of heart! It seems like a local Journal reporter certainly doesn’t understand the effectiveness of heart as he downplayed a Street and Smith prediction of Kyle Coulter making the all Mountain West Conference team. After all, how can a 6-foot, 1-inch, 230-pound defensive end effectively stop the run against the huge guys lining up against him? In fact if there was going to be a weakness on this team, a thought shared by many reporters and fans before this season started, it would be our undersized defensive line where Kyle Coulter makes a living playing football for the New Mexico Lobos. The answer is simple , you play with heart, you give it everything you’ve got and good things will happen, and for the Lobos good things have as our defensive line has been the strength of a team that has a very good shot at making its third straight bowl appearance. Playing with heart also explains why Kyle was often double teamed when playing nose guard last season even though the guys lining up on the other side of the ball were much larger. The bottom line is lack of weight has not been a liability. He wasn’t any bigger last season then he is now (there are some fans and media that assumed his weight would limit his effectiveness this season) and played effectively through injuries that would have stopped many bigger men. Another key element for his ability to play at the level he does is his strength and agility. He may not weigh as much as other defensive ends but pound for pound you won’t find anyone much stronger. He won the Beefmaster award (UNM holds an annual weight lifting competition for their football players) in 2002 for players weighing between 226 and 250 pounds – lifting 600 in the squat, 385 bench press, and 350 incline and power clean. Giving it all he had in the weight room helped him get the job done when he gave all he had on the field. Going 100 percent all the time is the trademark of No. 96. The online GoLobos.com bio of Kyle Coulter describes him as an energetic and tenacious presence on the defensive line who has been an underrated force in the trenches. The bio goes on to state even though he is a bit undersized he comes to play everyday. This echoes what coach Grady Stretz said about Kyle. Coach Stretz, who recruited him, said he is a no quit type of guy that inspires his teammates to play harder. He also went on to say that Kyle has a great work ethic and is truly a team player.
Enough of my words, now it’s time to read what Kyle Coulter has to say. Coulter answers a few questions about the team along with a few personal questions. Q. The Lobos are on their way to a third consecutive bowl appearance. What do you think has made the difference with this team concerning bowl appearances, an event that occurred rarely for past teams? A. In the past, we have made little mistakes that have us wind up losing the game. We either make penalties, missed assignments, tackles, blocks, or something of that nature. The reason I feel that we are going to a bowl game again this year is that we are eliminating those errors and the team has a drive that won’t let us be beaten. No matter how big of a deficit we have to overcome – we will do it. No matter how many mistakes we have to overcome – we will do it. We will never stop fighting to win. Q. Statistically the defensive line has been very strong against the run. What makes the stats even more meaningful is the fact that we do not exactly have an offense that keeps the defense off the field. Are you totally satisfied with the surprisingly effective performance of the defensive line or do you think there is still room for improvement and could you elaborate on your answer? A. Statistically we have been pretty good against the run this year but there is always room for improvement. We are not the best and I know that, as a defense that is our goal; not only to be the best in the Mountain West but we want to be the best in the nation. There is always something that can be worked on. A team can always improve in strength, speed, and agility. That is something that we always strive for; improvement. As a defense, since I’ve been here in 2000, we have set a standard of being the most physical and hardest playing defense in the league and we are trying to be the best in the nation. Q. Since you first came to New Mexico, you have seen the program improve steadily. What do you feel has made the difference in the teams improvement and how would you describe the future of Lobo football? A. When I came into the program in 2000, we went 5-6 and losing seemed to be expected of us, to everyone but the team. Coach Long is always talking about the only ones who truly know and believe in us, is the person playing beside you. Our teammates are our family. We work, sweat, bleed, win and lose together. They are the person we look to for support. We are not going to let our family down so we work as hard as we can during the season and off-season so that we can be the very best. Our team is a team that will always out-work, out-hit, and out-hustle our opponents. Knowing that, he has built a program on that principle. That has given us a never quit attitude to take into our season. Q. At one time Lobo football was almost an afterthought with sports fans in the community. Now 35,000 plus crowds are common. Do you think winning is the only factor contributing to the increased fan interest or do you think there is something more? A. Well, football has never been an afterthought to the Lobo fans, they just needed more of a reason to get into it. I feel we have started that. We are not where we want to be by any means but we have started a tradition of winning and that is going to continue for years to come. We have expanded the football stadium because of this and I can’t be any happier with the people who have filled those seats. The Red Menace fans are awesome. They are absolutely crazy. They love the Lobos and despise the opponents and spend most of game day proving it. They dress up in red wigs and shoulder pads, painted chests, and putting out signs, and I love it. It was something that Lobo football really needed. I don’t even want to think about what football was like here before we had them. It was definitely not the same. Thank you Red Menace. You have made playing football here an even greater experience. There have been so many people that have dedicated a good portion of their lives to making Lobo football what it needs to be. There are new websites and established ones like Loboland out there with great writers, photographs, stories and insight that are all compiled by people doing this out of love and not for money. Q. Last year Lobo fans were disappointed to say the least in the team performance in the Las Vegas Bowl. What happened last year and when (no ifs – think positive!) we play in a Bowl game this season are you confident we will have much better results this time and why? A. We did not have a very good showing last year its true but this year is different. We are a much different team than last years. I feel that our team chemistry is a lot stronger. We play more as a team than we have in the past. That is something that we have changed from last years team. We have a dream and that is to be the best. When we get into a bowl game this year, we are not going to let anyone down again. We have worked so hard this year and we are not going to let it all go to waste. Q On a personal note, what have been the low points and high points as a Lobo? A. The low points of being a Lobo is after any game we lost. There is an overwhelming feeling that we let not only ourselves down but we let down our fans. The lobo pack lives and dies cherry and silver and knowing that it breaks our hearts. We try so hard to win and if we lose, it not only kills us to let our teammates down, letting down the thousands of fans at the stadium or watching on t.v. absolutely kills us, especially me. The high points has been every year I have played. The class of 2000 has improved our record every year Coach Long has been the head coach. That says a lot about him and his staff. They have a way of getting us kids to play. The players mirror the coaching staff and the fact that we never give up and always fight to be the best says volumes. Q. I know your parents have made great efforts to attend your games, rarely missing any home or away games. How meaningful to you is their support? A. My parents are great. They have always supported me. They have done everything in their power to be there for me. Whether it is at a game or when I am scared about my health issues. They have always been there for me. There support is more than just being there physically; I have always had a support net for me to fall back on because of them. They will always be behind me no matter what I do or what decision I make. They have given me advice but most importantly they have let me make my own decisions. They have not persuaded me either way; they have just reminded me of goals I have set for myself, offered me academic advice, prayed with me and let me talk to them as I would a trusted friend. I have the greatest parents in the world. Thank you mom and dad for always being there for me. Q. A related question, the medical challenges had to be extremely tough on your parents as well as yourself. How did your parents respond to all the medical problems? A. Well, I am not to sure. They never showed anything but strength around me. They always took care of me and my needs without letting me see their emotions. I know they were very scared at times with my heart but I never knew that at the time. It was always a long time down the road. I don’t know how they were able to pull that off but I am very thankful that they could do that. It gave me a calmness at times when I would be stressing out. I would think to myself and say, “if my mom and dad are this way then why am I freaking out about this.” And about my sports injuries, they were just probably ready to just wrap me up in bubble wrap and then let me go. I imagine they got, or am, pretty sick of me going in and out of the hospital. Not that they don’t love the friends they have met there; doctors, nurses, etc., but it has been very expensive and I would imagine that if you asked them they would say they are ready for me to be finished with sports. They need a vacation! Q. You are an overachiever in my opinion. They guys opposite you on the line are often much bigger and you have had to play through a ton of injuries. To me you are a Rudy with skills, playing with so much heart. What drives you to play the way you do? A. I feel that playing football is a gift from God. If it were not for him I would definitely not be playing college football. Just as you have said, I have had a ton of injuries and it has been by God’s grace that I have been able to keep on playing. I am not an overachiever in any way. I just know that God will tell me when it is time to hang up my cleats and until then, i’ll keep on fighting. Football is a game that I love and I know that there have been things that should have kept me from continuing but God has blessed me with the drive and faith to keep on going. Everyday I play football I want to glorify him above all other things. Authors comment: Kyle, you are an overachiever. An overachiever is someone that makes far more out of the natural abilities they have than the typical person with the same abilities. Q. Physically you have had to face one challenge after another. Did thought of just quitting ever cross your mind and if so what kept you going? A. When my heart stuff was at its worst, I was unsure about what was going to happen. At times, doctors had a not so good outlook on my health and future. However, I was never really down. I knew that God had sent me here to play football and when it was my time to leave I knew that He would let me know. He guides my life so why would he not here, afterall, it was his doings that got me here in the first place. There were definitely times that it would have been much easier if I would have quit but that was never an option in my mind. When I was suffering with my back injuries, especially towards the end of last season, I was the worst, physically, I have ever been. I became an insomniac, I was in constant unbearable pain, i was taking a lot of pain pills which ate at my stomach and forced me to lose around 30 or 35 lbs. I went from about 260 at the start of the season to 224 during the bowl game. Physically and mentally I had reached my breaking point. It affected my personality and every other part of my life but when I was up at night at 3 or 4 or 5 in the morning because I couldn’t sleep, I still knew that God wants me to fight through this for some reason or another. So to answer your question, there were times where quitting would have been easier on myself but I could never have quit; I would be quitting on myself, my team, my teammates, my coaches, and most importantly, God. Q. Obviously one local reporter feels you are undersized in order to be a force on the defensive line. How would you answer your critics when it comes to your size and effectiveness? A. You can’t measure heart! I’m not the biggest guy, or the fastest guy but I will not give up, ever! It’s not the way I was brought up. I never have or ever will quit. I was dropped by a lot of schools during recruiting because of my size but so what if you don’t fit in the so-called, “mold”. Not a lot of guys do fit that mold. Nobody on our defensive line does but we’re pretty good. It is all because of heart. You can make a lot of plays by hustle alone. And that is the key ingredient in this defense. It all works because the players within it all go as hard as they can. Effectiveness has no measuring standard that includes size, speed, or talent. Effectiveness is whether or not you make plays, and that’s it. Q. Speaking of recruiting, Oklahoma State is right in your back yard, how heavily did they recruit you and was there any desire to play for them? What schools did recruit you? A. They did recruit me pretty heavily. For a while I was positive that was where I was going but things did not work out, for one reason or another. It was pretty disappointing at the time. My dad went there in the 70s and ran track and my mother too went there so It was going to be a pretty neat deal to go there myself and experience the same school that my parents did. I grew up with that school in my house so I definitely had some natural draw to it. But I am glad that I did not go there. I am a Lobo and I would not trade this experience for anything. I have a family here and I am proud to call myself a Lobo. I was recruited by many schools but when signing day came, they did not keep their offers. Texas Tech came back on signing day but gave their scholarship away. Arkansas came in on signing day and asked me if I would wait for a scholarship because they were watching if one of their players was going to sign or not. They offered me right after the signing hour. I had the papers for Pittsburg State in my hand on signing day. They are a great division II school in Kansas. There was also Arkansas Tech, Missouri Southern and others. UNM had been recruiting me but I did not know what was going to happen with them because they had not called me for some time. UNM had come to my house but had to leave prematurely and it was after that I did not hear from them for some time. It was the day before or two days before signing day when they came back and offered me a scholarship. Q. Lobo fans are grateful you chose UNM, but what were the reasons that drew you to UNM? A. UNM is a place where I wanted to play. I loved their defense and I knew I could play there sooner because I was a better fit in that system. Our defense emphasizes speed more that size. That was great for me. I was also looking at going into medical school and UNM has a great med program. Even though there was a part of me that wanted to play for OSU there was a part of me that wanted to go to school away from home. I had never been West and playing in the Mountain West Conference was going to give me a chance to see a new side of the U.S. Albuquerque is a great place and I am so glad that I chose to come here. It has been great. I would not change my experiences here for anything. Q. What are your plans for life after football? A. I have a lot of options but I am not sure what exactly what I am going to do. I have a dream of owning a sod farm and tree nursery but that is going to take a lot of money to start so I have to do something in the mean time. I have kicked around the idea of going back for another degree, landscape architecture. Now my dreams and my degree don’t exactly mesh. I majored in history and minored in media arts. Its not exactly a great match in any way but this also gives me a passageway to coach and teach if I chose that later in life. My family also started a chemical importing business a few years ago and he wants me to work for him sometime so that is something I am definitely going to do. So, to give you a definite answer is impossible – sorry. Thank you Kyle for your answers and insights! It has been a pleasure for this writer to do this story as my admiration for Kyle and his family grow as I get to know them more from this story. I have no doubt that Kyle will overachieve through out his life and will have a positive impact on the lives of many. A trait I see in him and many other of life’s achievers is an intense desire to constantly improve and this will continue to pay dividends in his life. He told me he is always hard on himself and is rarely satisfied with what he is accomplishing. This is a common statement I hear personally from the athletes I get to know or from those I read about in the media that make the most of their God given abilities. They set very high goals for themselves and because of these goals they push themselves to the max. These high goals often cause greater frustrations, but the end result is a person that will reach their potential as an athlete and as a person. Kyle Coulter is such a person. Special thanks to Gary Stepic for the in-depth feature and photos for The Kyle Coulter Story. And what a story it was! It was great!! We also want to send a special thanks to Kyle and his family for taking the time to spend with Gary, the edits, and for getting the facts straight. Enjoy the holidays! One more game! ~ LoboPub |